I didn’t think I would ever have to do that to anyone. I have my reasons why I didn’t let it fade away like I did with some of my friendships. This one was much different. I would have, at one point in my life, said I was close to this person and for the most part they treated me great. They hurt me once and I let it slide because at the time I cared so much more about my friends than myself and I didn’t see it as a big deal even though everyone around me did. I should have seen that as a warning sign that they were crazy but fortunately for me I have great friends who told me about this person who has more than once been described as a psychopath. It wasn’t until August of last year did I hear questionable things about them and how their behavior made me sick to my stomach. The way this person treats other human beings and not so much have any remorse scares me so much. The lies they say and the lies they believe are uncanny. If you hurt me then fine whatever but when you hurt my friends that is when I lose it. I stayed this persons “friend” from August until May and in between all of that I managed to stop a few of my friends from getting emotionally hurt by them. The great part is some people I warned about this person to already had their suspicions and the stuff I told them just confirmed it. The guilt though of being their friend overrode my need to protect everyone and I had to end it for good. I feel so relieved that they are finally out of my life. I feel like I could step forward and move on. 

A part of me wants to just post who it is and warn everyone. Some people question me on why I don’t because they agree that they shouldn’t get away with the bullshit they’ve been getting away with. I think one of the main things holding me back is my age, being 22 and spreading this around would make me look like I’m being petty and starting drama. Also, the girls this person has dealt with don’t want anything to do with him anymore and some are even genuinely scared of him and I don’t want to be the person to bring back this evil into their lives again. It did feel good though for a while saving womankind.